Homily: Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God
Luke 2:16-21
1 January 2024
Fr. Ricky Cañet Montañez
I have a friend who is known for throwing parties for her mom. When her mom turned 80, she decided that all succeeding birthday celebrations of her mom would be extra special. They always had a program where relatives and friends showcased their talents but more importantly, they always had a short tribute for their mother. Everyone, from the children to the great grandchildren, is asked to express their appreciation, gratitude and love for her. My friend believes that while her mom is still alive, they should fill her heart with the assurance that she is loved, cherished and appreciated. She says it is better than delivering a tearful eulogy when she is gone.
Today is the Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God. This is a very special title bestowed on the Blessed Virgin Mary. It cannot be challenged that Mary was Jesus’ mother because she carried Him in her womb for nine months. Her body kept baby Jesus alive and nourished Him till He was ready to be born into the world. He is flesh of her flesh. Through her, it is possible for Jesus to be human. Do not forget, though that Jesus is also fully divine. Although it is true that Mary is not the source of His divinity, she is still called the “Mother of God” because the two (2) natures of Jesus — human and divine, cannot be separated. He is 100% human and 100% divine. When we honour Mary as Mother of God, we also glorify Jesus in His humanity and divinity.
The gospel tells us that Mary was someone who reflected on this beautiful and mysterious plan of God for the salvation of His people, that she is now a part of. With the incarnation of Jesus, God has a new relationship with humanity. Mary readily welcomed God’s invitation to her and willingly cooperated with God’s will. Her reflective openness allowed her to be sensitive to the abiding presence of God in her life and that of her Son. She knew that God was always with her; that God comforted her and encouraged her to persevere despite difficulties. Mary was ever present at significant events in the life of Jesus, even the most painful ones. Her constant pondering helped her to recognise that all human experiences (both the easy and difficult ones) are never beyond the presence and power of God.
As we honour Mary today, let us also remember our own mothers. Through them, we have received the gift of being born into this world — to experience its beauty and joys and to grow stronger and wiser because of the struggles and challenges life presents to us. If your moms are still alive, do not miss an opportunity to honour them and to express your love and appreciation for them. Recently someone posted a list of things she regrets ever saying to her mom whenever there was an opportunity for them to be together.
“Mi, andito naman ako para mag-aral, sunod nalang ako sa gala ninyo.” (Mommy, I am here to study. I’ll try to join you next time.)
“Mi, next week na’ko uwi.” (Mommy, I will go home next week.)
“Pass muna ako, may work pa.” (I am excusing myself for now, I still have work.)
“Belated happy birthday!”
“Sa weekend nalang.” (I will do it next week.)
If you keep procrastinating spending time with your loved ones, you miss out on precious opportunities to bond. Worst of all, we can never tell when we may lose the chance altogether should God call them from this life.
In the age of multitasking, of obsession to productivity and of numerous distractions, it is so easy for us to be caught up in the busy-ness of life that we often miss out on important relationships. Technology gives us so many means of communication but the level of our interactions have become superficial — (emojis and acronyms na lang… IKR). In our encounters with others, we find ourselves preoccupied with so many other concerns or (worse) glued to our screens that we hardly notice the person in front of us at the dinner table. We are physically at home, at work or in the church, but we are not present at all.
Throughout this year, let us learn to be more present for one another. Presence is not achieved simply by putting our gadgets away (although this is a great start). Perhaps, we should take a moment to look into the faces of our loved ones. When was the last time, we ever looked at each other in the eyes at home? Let us make the effort to keep track not only of what’s the latest in technology and society but more importantly, remain connected with those around us, especially our loved ones. Let us emulate Mary’s posture of reflective openness that we may be attentive to the presence of God and to the opportunities to be closer to Him. It is only by being fully present in each moment that life throughout this year will prove to be meaningful for us. So… here’s wishing you all, “A grace-filled 2024! May the Good Lord smile on us this new year!”
HOLY MOTHER AND CHILD BY MIKE MOYERS
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